Co-Parenting After Divorce
Custody & Visitation Lawyer in Jackson, MS
One of the most difficult aspects of a divorce for most parents will be the impact it will have on their children. As a matter of fact, many parents delay divorce or decide to stay together to try to protect their children. Although divorce significantly impacts children no matter the circumstances at hand, there are measures spouses can take through co-parenting to lessen the impact and help children face a more stable future.
As a Jackson divorce attorney, one of the most common questions Mark Chinn faces involves parents asking whether to tell children about their divorce or separation. Some parents believe it is better not to tell their children, or to tell them very little about their divorce, but Mark Chinn believes that honesty is the best policy. You must realize that, as parents, you are the center of your children’s universe. They probably already know that something is amiss, and providing them with honest, clear information can make all the difference. A void of information may prove far more harmful, as they may think matters are worse than they are, and may feel far less stable.
We recommend that you consult with a child development specialist to discuss how to communicate with your children regarding your divorce, as their age, maturity, and other factors may come into play. We can also send you some reference materials upon request, which can help with this important issue.
Interested in learning more? Read on or call us at (601) 202-5594 to discuss your case.
Promoting Children’s Resilience Through Co-Parenting
Children are often more resilient than we think. We can promote this resilience through an effective co-parenting plan that addresses a child’s unique needs and the specific circumstances of the case at hand. At Chinn & Associates, we believe in helping parents through their divorce proceedings in such a way as to keep the family intact. The marriage may be legally at an end, but the family is still standing and should be protected.
A collaborative approach to co-parenting may be best, where parents work together to help their children after divorce. This may include:
- Making sure that the child knows that both parents will still be very involved in his or her life.
- Keeping in close communication with the child at all times.
- Speaking and acting in ways that promote feelings of security, with warmth and affection, providing emotional support.
- Not speaking negatively of the other parent to the child or in the child’s presence.
- Working together with the other parent to make decisions that positively impact the child’s lives.
If parents have trouble working together, parallel parenting is another approach that may be taken to co-parenting after divorce. This may include:
- Avoiding situations or communication that may create conflict.
- Avoiding communication about minor things.
- Communicating by email or letter that is factual, concise, and business-like.
- Ignoring, rather than arguing back, regarding parenting criticisms or other negative communication.
- Accepting that there may be more than one way to parent a child and that a child may be parented in more than one way.
- Not criticizing the other parent directly, in front of the child, or to the child.
The goal in any divorce and custody agreement should be to promote the long-term well-being of all parties involved. Contact our firm at (601) 202-5594 to learn more about co-parenting after divorce.
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I just wanted to take a moment to express my sincere gratitude for your generosity in sharing your CLE materials with me. Your insights and expertise have long been an inspiration, not just in Mississippi family law but on the national stage as well. Your leadership in value billing has truly shaped the way family law attorneys approach their practice, and I deeply respect the impact you've had on our profession. Beyond your professional accomplishments, I've always admired the incredible successes of your family. Watching your daughters thrive in their own careers and families over the years has been a joy. It must have been an especially proud moment to present a CLE alongside Carly what a remarkable testament to your influence both as a lawyer and as a father. It has been an honor to know you and call you a friend over the years. Thank you again for your kindness and generosity. I truly appreciate it...and wish continued success to you!Attorney Phillip T.
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Chinn & Associates helped me so much in a very complicated situation. They walked me through the entire process, answered all my questions, and were always very attentive to my needs. The pricing was fair, and I really liked the pricing structure. There were no surprises. I really appreciate all they did for the kids and I.Anonymous
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Your insights and expertise have long been an inspiration, not just in Mississippi family law but on the national stage as well. Your leadership in value billing has truly shaped the way family law attorneys approach their practice, and I deeply respect the impact you've had on our profession. Beyond your professional accomplishments, I’ve always admired the incredible successes of your family. Watching your daughters thrive in their own careers and families over the years has been a joy. It must have been an especially proud moment to present a CLE alongside Carly — what a remarkable testament to your influence both as a lawyer and as a father.Phillip T.
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Mark and his team did a great job handling my tough situation. Their expertise and knowledge made all the difference and I am so thankful for each member of this law firm.Mark
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Mr. Chinn and staff are very professional and knowledgeable. I was informed throughout the entire divorce process and I'm very pleased. My lawyer showed a deep understanding of my personal situation and demonstrated empathy throughout the entire process. This helped me tremendously to get through this difficult situation. I highly recommend this law firm.Shandler
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Trial day 2 today. Looking forward to work (which I rarely say in chancery court) but working with three of the best who make a beautiful, awesome, clean record. My reporter friends all get it. Makes work a pleasure. Thank you, Counsel, for being great at your job and making mine great. (Mark Chinn, Esq.)Unsolicited Post by a Court Reporter
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I am beyond grateful for the exceptional service provided by Mark. From our initial consultation, it was clear that he had a deep understanding of family law and a genuine concern for my well-being. Mark was always available to answer my questions, provided clear and concise advice, and worked to ensure the best possible outcome for my case. His strategic approach and attention to detail were truly impressive, and his support helped me stay calm and focused during a very challenging time. I highly recommend Mark Chinn to anyone seeking a knowledgeable and compassionate divorce attorney.Anonymous
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Thank you guys and I mean it from the bottom of my heart. The strategy and pressure worked. And the amount of work from you guys was above and beyond. Janeah you are unstoppable!!!! I’m more than happy with the agreement also. The constant contact with you guys and timely responses back to my questions really helped when things would get nasty. Helped me to stay smart and strategic instead of panic. But thanks again for everythingJoel D.
